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Debby, you're speaking rot as far as I'm concerned. I am 62 and let me tell you, I've had nights" with women 20-30 years younger and they do not even ask what I do for a job. Certainly the long term prospects are not great with a considerably younger woman. But in my experience a great deal of much younger women go for me. They say I am a silver fox and fine lol - Sorry, but as much as youwant to believe it is all about a cynical cash grab, I need to inform you we old guys, like some older women bring the opposite sex. Regrettably, many don't bring the opposite sex. nature is cruel.

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Men over 45 do have more options regarding dating. However there are certain ways around this. First, a woman has to expressly state what she offers a man (that he wants) in the context of dating and relationships. I have read tens of thousands of female profiles (35-55 years old) and almost not one of them really state what they offer a man. Usually, it is a record of demands and preferences. This is not good advertising. A lady should have the ability to answer the question What do I provide a man he wants?" If she does not know, (or is offended by the question) she's not prepared for dating.

Kathleen, I am an old man and most women on line in my age group make out they are not interested in the younger men. But of course they're. It is only that all the younger guys approaching elderly women are predominantly, looking for what they consider to be the quickest way to get easy sex. They just show interest in guys their particular age when the supply of younger men dries up, or the guys start to lose interest in them. It's insulting to me. And that's why I am not interested in the women, my age who approach me.

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I get what you're saying. When my marriage fell apart a year ago people attempted to reassure me that I was a catch. And I still matter I should be - am tall, clean-cut, seem young for 48, run my own successful firm, know the way to dance, am a community leader with environmental education and in my profession, lecture at university, write, from an exotic location (Alaska). As a result I'm very active so online dating looked like the answer. But in fact in six I can count on one hand the number of women that have written back and no genuine dates. I decided women in my local date range and attractiveness range. Merely to check I wrote to fairly older women and less attractive than myself. Nothing. Got on Tinder and swiped practically every woman. Tried all sorts of pictures. Nothing. while I talk to my female friends they say they're inundated. The only dates I have had, 2, were from old buddies who both told me they had been fantasising about me for years but then they left it at that and scarcely return my calls. At Meetups women appear interested however they don't answer. Just don't comprehend this, it is as if they expect me to pursue them and I am reluctant to do that because the two times I did that when my union was souring forever alienated good pals. Really out to sea on all this - so much has changed since I was last dating 26 years ago.

I feel like I am aging out" of internet dating. I have found after my last birthday (I turned 54 in June) that the answer I get on has dropped to virtually nothing. It's as though going from the early 50s to the mid 50s is some form of death-knell for a dating life. I begin contact with men in an age-range of about 3 years younger up to about 8 years older than myself. The possible matches that the website sends me are age appropriate for me, but when I look at the age-range that those guys desire, (typically 35-50) I frequently move past them, knowing I can not compete with women in their desirable range, even though many of those men are as much as 5-8 years older than me! In other words, intentionally sends me matches that are probably not realistic for me to pursue. When I've emailed a few of these guys, I never hear back. I'm guessing they check out my profile, see my age, and likely read no further. Even if I'm within their desired range, I still don't get much of a reply. Thorncliffe Canada free sex dating. I assume the reason for this is they can get younger women to react to them, so why would they go for me when they've a chance with the 45 year-old model of me? If their first wife was their age, like a school honey or whatever, they probably feel entitled to a newer version, so to speak. Our culture supports this. It is frustrating, as well as depressing and more than a little humiliating. It is the builtin folly of online sites: you are merely defined by your actual age, in bold type right next to your user name.

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One more thing. I'd like to ask all of my middleaged online dating male and female compatriots a favor. Please, let us rid our profiles of these overused phrases once and for all: glass-half-full, lusty, play-free, and easygoing. And these, let's omit these also: "I look 10 years younger than I am," "I hate talking about myself, but..." and any and all derivatives of "my buddies/mom/ex-husband/kids tell me that..I am a glass-half-complete optimist, who's easy going and looks 10 years younger than I am." I believe that if we can all really agree to clean up our profiles then perhaps, just perhaps, we can find some common ground and get back to the business of falling in love (or at least having fun trying).

Quit Using Your Profile to Whine about Men. Several guys noticed how many women's online dating profiles are included chiefly of complaints about men - either their profiles, or their behaviour in general. I agree with the guys on this one. There isn't any point in using your profile story as a soapbox for your negative understanding of all single, middle-aged men (for heaven's sakes utilize a website for that). So while I'm certain there are men (and women) out there who are logged on and behaving badly, I believe that women must take responsibility for their own selections. We can keep our favorable expectations while at the same time heeding our inner voice that warns us when something isn't quite right. Way too often some women are guided not by common sense, but by wishful thinking and also a want to be nice and not seem ill-mannered, so we discount the big, red flashing warning lights raging in our heads and continue without caution. I once met a woman who expressed great sadness that she simply couldn't trust the guys she met online. She then continued to tell me a story about any of these guys who spent days (yes, days) wooing her via e-mail. He told her stories of his limitless prosperity and his links to powerful individuals all around the world. She slept with him on the second date (after he promised to whisk her off to a private island that next weekend). But that's not all. She also gave him all of her identifying information when he told her that she needed to be vetted by "his people." And guess what? Yep! Her identity was stolen. Complaining about how she could simply no longer trust men she met online was a bit like complaining about how she could only no longer trust Nigerian princes.

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Tone Down the Boudoir Shots. You say you want a quality guy who respects you as a human being and is interested in having a serious relationship on you, then you post photos of yourself next to your bed (or in your bed, or in your bed, or in somebody else's bed). Free sex dating nearest Thorncliffe, Ontario. And if you aren't posting photos of yourself next to your bed, (or on your bed, or in your bed), you are posting pictures with way too much cleavage. Now, that is absolutely wonderful - I have no problem at all with this, and I'm certain many guys don't have a problem either - but what some guys do have a problem with is when women place said super-hot glamor pictures and then whine to their friends, or make statements on their profiles about how all men are dogs and only need them for sex. And while we're on the subject of criticism-filled profiles... Thorncliffe Canada Free Sex Dating.

Athletic and Toned Means, well, Athletic and Toned. I hate the body descriptors as much as you do (well, except for you size 0 women out there, you probably adore them), but I do believe it is significant that we at least strive for truthfulness. The word on the street is that far too many women out there in the online dating world are employing the "athletic and toned" descriptor in reference to their "about average" bodies (this complaint applies to guys as well, of course). The matter is, there actually is not anything wrong with having an around average (or curvy) body so let's take the pressure off ourselves and heed the advice of Amy Schuler, and recognize once and for all that a little meat on our bones isn't going to kill us, and it isn't going to drive away the good guys either (right, good guys?).

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No. More. Instagram. Photographs. I really like Instagram photos because lots of the filters make my eyes look strikingly blue (or green, or lavender), and some even shave about ten years off my face. But do I post these pictures on my internet dating profile? No I do not. Why? Because my eyes aren't actually that blue (or green or lavender), and I am about 10 years older than my Instagram photos would have you believe. This was the number one complaint among the guys I interviewed - artistically filtered (i.e., deceptive) photos. Truth in advertising women, truth in marketing. Free sex dating closest to Thorncliffe, Ontario.

Manner too Many Pet Photographs. This was a tremendous criticism among the guys I interviewed. They are taking a look at your profile to find out more about you, not your pets. So delete the pet photographs, especially the ones without you in them. Oh and while we are on the subject of pet pictures, I have a personal request of all you single, middle aged women out there on dating websites: please, please, please delete any and all pictures of your cats. This really is really significant. I can't emphasize it enough. Single, middle-aged women already need to cope with far too many negative stereotypes, and also the cat pictures (you cuddling with your cats, you kissing your cats, multiple cats on your bed) just function to fortify them. I once composed a blog post about how dating occasionally made me feel undesirable , and I got hundreds of comments from single middle-aged men throughout all of North America notifying me that I must live in a dark apartment with 100 or so cats, so actually, please delete them.

Last week I shared my six pet peeves about middle-aged men's online dating profiles , and I promised everyone that this week I Had focus on middle-aged women's online dating profiles. Since I'm far more comfortable with men's profiles, I recruited some of my single male friends (and the Twittersphere) to help me with this specific post. This list is my best effort at summarizing the outcomes of my informal survey, with a few of my own observations predicated on a bit of research I ran myself. Disclaimer: if you're a woman between the ages of 45 and 60, living in the Chicagoland area, and I popped up on your "Viewed Me" list, I'm sorry, really. Anyway, here goes:

I can't say it any clearer than this: Don't post any selfies of yourself looking into your own bathroom mirror, interval. Seeing a guy standing next to an open bathroom, or maybe a toilet paper dispenser, is an immediate turn off. Take a selfie the means everyone else in the world does, by using a selfie stick and pretending as even though you are doing something fun (like fishing or watching football). Or, in case you don't have a selfie stick, shoot your profile picture the old fashioned way by exploiting the reverse camera view on your smart phone and then snapping a selfie in your auto. Worst comes to worst, have a friend take an action shot of you standing alone with a glass of wine pretending to laugh at someone just out of view. In case you don't have a single friend who can take your picture, or you do not possess a smartphone, then you likely shouldn't be dating in the first place.

I am not the sole one seeing these tendencies. Often, when I get together with my single girlfriends the matter of some men's online dating profiles is raised with a collective "what in the world were they thinking??" From time to time I've looked past these profile peculiarities and gone out with some of these men since I felt they were really nice guys. Free sex dating in Thorncliffe Ontario. And let's just say that I was not surprised when they shared their frustrations with online dating - of rarely receiving emails from women, of their e-mails regularly going unanswered. I needed to catch these men by their shoulders, and give them a powerful (albeit friendly) shake, while sharing my suspicions about their errant marketing techniques. But I have always resisted the temptation to do so from a anxiety about seeming rude and ill mannered.

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