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My name is Justin im30 and have attempted so many dating sites its not amusing. I've also tried various amounts of societal places. I. Do bodybuilding in the summer at times and mma as well so..... know I am not a bad looking guy. I also am an individual fulltime dad of a ten year-old. What I've come to understand about women now a days is that they do not need equal rights they desire superior rights. Way to often I hear from women not to judge a book by its cover or judge by looks. But its OK for them all to do it. A relationship is a fifty fifty split on both parts. They expect it all wile not bringing anything to the table in return. The reality that I am a single fulltime dad really disturbs women even on dating sites particularly. Girls call a man a creep for so many matters. What makes a man a creep? Is it because he says a lady is pretty, hot,or misspells a few words? In my opinion guys have it tougher than girl. A man is expected to give everything, provide everything and do make cook anything a girl needs to create her happy. Not to mention they get away with everything from not paying child support,getting out of speeding tickits. But if a guy dose any of those things he gets into serious trouble and at times goes to jail. Everything a girl on a dating sites says what they want or says what they anticipate from from guys or what they believe in religious views included. Absolutely negates or contradicts everything they say,are or what they want. But...... This is the way women are in2015. And no it doesn't have anything to do with looks,personality. I really am interested what or how any girl has to add to this.
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Internet dating is absurd for men. My day begins with rejection and ends with rejection. Girls are overly worried about a mans outdoor look that it blinds them to everything else. I've been doing online dating for a couple years now and have met some women, but most of the messages I receive are from women I'm not physically attracted to. After talking with buddies women appear to blow off every man, so who are they talking to? Internet dating is not merely harder for guys, it is considerably harder. It is men doing the great majority of work and women sitting there filtering thru and rejecting all the nice guys that she complains about not existing.
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