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Debby, you are talking rot as far as I'm concerned. I am 62 and let me tell you, I Have had nights" with women 20-30 years younger and they do not even ask what I do for a job. Sure the long term prospects aren't good with a considerably younger woman. But in my experience a whole lot of much younger women go for me. They say I'm a silver fox and attractive lol - Sorry, but as much as you'd like to consider it is all about a cynical money grab, I must inform you we mature men, like some old women attract the opposite sex. Unfortunately, a lot of people do not attract the opposite sex. nature is cruel.

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Men over 45 do have more alternatives regarding dating. However there are certain ways around this. First, a woman has to specifically state what she offers a man (that he desires) in the context of dating and relationships. I have read a large number of female profiles (35-55 years old) and almost none of them really state what they provide a guy. Typically, it's a list of demands and preferences. This really isn't great marketing. A woman should be able to answer the question What do I provide a guy that he desires?" If she does not know, (or is offended by the question) she's not prepared for dating.

Kathleen, I'm an older guy and most women on line in my age group make out they aren't interested in the younger men. But of course they're. It's merely that all the younger men approaching older women are predominantly, looking for what they consider to be the quickest way to get easy sex. They only show interest in guys their very own age when the supply of younger guys dries up, or the men start to lose interest in them. It's insulting to me. And that's the reason why I'm not interested in the women, my age who approach me.

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I get what you're saying. When my marriage fell apart a year ago people attempted to reassure me that I was a catch. And I still matter I should be - am tall, trim, seem youthful for 48, run my own successful business, know how to dance, am a community leader with environmental education and in my profession, lecture at university, write, from an exotic place (Alaska). As a result I am quite busy so online dating looked like the answer. But in fact in six I can count on one hand the amount of women who have written back and no actual dates. I decided women in my local date range and attractiveness range. Simply to check I wrote to rather elderly women and less attractive than myself. Nothing. Got on Tinder and swiped practically every girl. Attempted all kinds of graphics. Nothing. When I talk to my female friends they say they are inundated. The sole dates I've had, 2, were from old buddies who both told me they had been fantasising about me for years but then they left it at that and scarcely return my calls. At Meetups women seem interested however they don't answer. Just don't realize this, it's as if they expect me to pursue them and I 'm loath to do that because the two times I did that when my union was souring permanently alienated good buddies. Really out to sea on all of this - so much has changed since I was last dating 26 years past.

I feel like I am aging out" of online dating. I have discovered after my last birthday (I turned 54 in June) that the response I get on has dropped to almost nothing. It's as though moving from the early 50s to the mid 50s is some form of death-knell for a dating life. I begin contact with guys in an age-range of about 3 years younger up to about 8 years older than myself. The possible matches the website sends me are age appropriate for me, but when I look at the age-range that those guys desire, (normally 35-50) I often go past them, knowing I can not compete with women in their desired range, even though many of those men are as much as 5-8 years old than me! In other words, intentionally sends me matches which are probably not realistic for me to pursue. When I've emailed a few of these men, I never hear back. I am guessing they check out my profile, see my age, and likely read no further. Even if I'm within their desirable range, I still don't get much of a response. Tudor Canada Free Sex Dating. I suppose the reason for this is they can get younger women to respond to them, so why would they go for me when they've a chance with the 45 year-old version of me? If their first wife was their age, such as, for instance, a school love or whatever, they likely feel entitled to a newer model, so to speak. Our culture encourages this. It's frustrating, as well as depressing and more than a little humiliating. It is the built-in folly of on-line websites: you're just defined by your age, in bold type right next to your user name.

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One more thing. I'd like to ask all my middle aged internet dating male and female compatriots a favor. Please, let us rid our profiles of these overused phrases once and for all: glass-half-full, sensual, play-free, and easygoing. And these, let us omit these too: "I look 10 years younger than I am," "I loathe talking about myself, but..." and all derivatives of "my friends/mother/ex/kids tell me that..I am a glass-half-total optimist, who is easy going and looks 10 years younger than I am." I think that if we can all really agree to clean up our profiles then perhaps, just maybe, we can locate some common ground and get back to the work of falling in love (or at least having fun trying).

Quit Using Your Profile to Complain about Men. Several guys noted how many women's online dating profiles are included primarily of criticisms about guys - either their profiles, or their behaviour in general. I agree with the men on this one. There is no point in using your profile story as a soapbox for your negative perception of all single, middle-aged men (for heaven's sakes make use of a blog for that). So while I'm sure there are guys (and women) out there who are logged on and behaving badly, I believe that women must take responsibility for their own choices. We can keep our favorable expectations while at exactly the same time heeding our inner voice that warns us when something isn't quite correct. Much too frequently some women are led not by common sense, but by wishful thinking and also a want to be pleasant and not appear rude, so we discount the large, red flashing warning lights raging in our heads and continue without caution. I once met a girl who expressed great dismay that she just could not trust the men she met online. She then continued to tell me a story about one of these guys who spent days (yes, days) wooing her via email. He told her stories of his limitless wealth and his links to powerful individuals all over the world. She slept with him on the 2nd date (after he promised to whisk her away to a private island that next weekend). But that's not all. She also gave him all of her identifying information when he told her that she needed to be checked by "his folks." And guess what? Yep! Her identity was stolen. Whining about how she could only no longer trust guys she met online was a bit like whining about how she could just no longer trust Nigerian princes.

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Tone Down the Boudoir Photos. You say you want a good man who honors you as a human being and is interested in having a serious relationship with you, and then you post pictures of yourself next to your bed (or in your bed, or in your bed, or in another person 's bed). Free sex dating closest to Tudor, Alberta. And if you aren't posting pictures of yourself next to your bed, (or on your bed, or in your bed), you are posting photos with far too much cleavage. Now, that is totally excellent - I have no issue at all with this, and I'm sure many guys don't have a problem either - but what some guys do have a problem with is when women place said super-hot glamour shots and then whine to their buddies, or make statements on their profiles about how all men are dogs and just want them for sex. And while we are on the topic of complaint-filled profiles... Tudor, Canada free sex dating.

Athletic and Toned Means, well, Athletic and Toned. I despise the body descriptors as much as you do (well, except for you size 0 women out there, you most likely love them), but I do believe it is important that we at least strive for truthfulness. The word on the street is the fact that way too many women out there in the internet dating world are employing the "fit and toned" descriptor in reference to their "about average" bodies (this criticism applies to men as well, of course). The matter is, there really isn't anything wrong with having an about typical (or curvy) body thus let us take the pressure off ourselves and heed the advice of Amy Schuler, and understand once and for all that a little meat on our bones isn't going to kill us, and it isn't going to drive away the good guys either (correct, good guys?).

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No. More. Instagram. Photographs. I really like Instagram photos because lots of the filters make my eyes look strikingly blue (or green, or lavender), and some even shave about 10 years off my face. But do I post these photos on my online dating profile? No I don't. Why? Because my eyes aren't actually that blue (or green or lavender), and I am about 10 years older than my Instagram photos would have you believe. This was the number one complaint among the guys I interviewed - artistically filtered (i.e., delusory) photos. Truth in advertising women, truth in marketing. Free sex dating nearest Tudor, Alberta.

Waaaay too Many Pet Photographs. This was a tremendous gripe among the men I interviewed. They are looking at your profile to find out more about you, not your pets. So delete the pet pictures, especially the ones without you in them. Oh and while we're on the topic of pet pictures, I got a personal request of all you single, middle aged women out there on dating websites: please, please, please delete any and all photographs of your cats. This is so important. I can't emphasize it enough. Single, middle-aged women already must deal with way too many negative stereotypes, as well as the cat photos (you cuddling with your cats, you kissing your cats, multiple cats in your bed) only serve to fortify them. I once wrote a blog post about how dating sometimes made me feel undesirable , and I got hundreds of opinions from single middle-aged men throughout all of North America notifying me that I must live in a dark flat with 100 or so cats, so really, please delete them.

Last week I shared my six pet peeves about middle-aged men's online dating profiles , and I promised everyone that this week I'd concentrate on middle-aged women's online dating profiles. Since I am far more comfortable with men's profiles, I recruited some of my single male friends (and the Twittersphere) to help me with this specific post. The following list is my best attempt at summarizing the results of my informal survey, with some of my own observations predicated on a bit of research I conducted myself. Disclaimer: if you're a girl between the ages of 45 and 60, living in the Chicagoland area, and I popped up on your "Viewed Me" list, I'm sorry, really. Anyway, here goes:

I can not say it any clearer than this: Don't post any selfies of yourself looking into your bathroom mirror, period. Seeing a man standing next to an open toilet, or even a toilet paper dispenser, is an immediate turn off. Take a selfie the way everyone else in the world does, by using a selfie stick and pretending as even though you're doing something enjoyable (like fishing or watching football). Or, in the event you don't have a selfie stick, shoot your profile photograph the old fashioned way by exploiting the reverse camera view on your smart phone and then snapping a selfie in your automobile. Worst comes to worst, have a buddy take an action photo of you standing alone with a glass of wine pretending to laugh at someone just out of view. In case you don't have a single friend who can take your photograph, or you do not own a smartphone, then you probably should not be dating in the first place.

I'm not the only one finding these trends. Frequently, when I get together with my single girlfriends the subject of some men's online dating profiles is raised with a collective "what in the world were they thinking??" From time to time I Have looked past these profile peculiarities and gone out with some of these men since I sensed they were really nice guys. Free sex dating nearby Tudor, Alberta. And let us just say that I was not surprised when they shared their frustrations with online dating - of seldom receiving e-mails from women, of their e-mails regularly going unanswered. I wanted to grab these guys by their shoulders, and provide them a strong (albeit friendly) handshake, while sharing my suspicions about their errant promotion techniques. But I've consistently resisted the temptation to do so out of a anxiety about seeming rude and ill-mannered.

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