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Debby, you are discussing rot as far as I'm concerned. I am 62 and let me tell you, I've had nights" with women 20-30 years younger and they do not even ask what I do for a job. Certainly the long term prospects are not great with a considerably younger girl. But in my experience a whole lot of much younger women go for me. They say I am a silver fox and attractive lol - Sorry, but as much as youwant to consider it is about a cynical money grab, I must tell you we old guys, like some older women attract the opposite sex. Regrettably, many do not entice the opposite sex. nature is unkind.

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Men over 45 do have more choices regarding dating. However there are ways around this. First, a woman has to specifically say what she offers a man (that he desires) in the context of dating and relationships. I've read thousands of female profiles (35-55 years old) and nearly not one of them actually state what they provide a man. Normally, itis a list of demands and choices. This is not great marketing. A woman should be able to answer the question What do I provide a guy he wants?" If she does not understand, (or is offended by the question) she is not prepared for dating.

Kathleen, I'm an old guy and most women on line in my age group make out they aren't interested in the younger guys. But of course they're. It's only that all the younger men approaching old women are mainly, looking for what they consider to be the fastest method to get easy sex. They just reveal interest in men their own age when the supply of younger guys dries up, or the men begin to lose interest in them. it is insulting to me. And that's the reason why I am not interested in the women, my age who approach me.

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I get what you're saying. When my marriage fell apart a year ago people tried to assure me that I was a catch. And I still thing I should be - am tall, clean-cut, look young for 48, run my own successful company, know the way to dance, am a community leader with environmental education and in my profession, lecture at university, write, from an exotic place (Alaska). As a result I'm quite busy so online dating looked like the solution. But in fact in six I can count on one hand the amount of women who've written back and no genuine dates. I decided women in my date range and attractiveness range. Simply to check I wrote to fairly mature women and less attractive than myself. Nothing. Got on Tinder and swiped practically every girl. Attempted all kinds of images. Nothing. When I talk to my female friends they say they're inundated. The only dates I've had, 2, were from old friends who both told me they had been fantasising about me for years but then they left it at that and seldom return my calls. At Meetups women seem interested but they don't respond. Just don't comprehend this, it is as if they expect me to pursue them and I 'm unwilling to do that because the two times I did that when my marriage was souring permanently alienated good pals. Really out to sea on all of this - so much has changed since I was last dating 26 years ago.

I feel like I 'm aging out" of online dating. I have seen after my last birthday (I turned 54 in June) that the answer I get on has dropped to nearly nothing. It is as though going from the early 50s to the mid 50s is some form of death-knell for a dating life. I initiate contact with men in an age-range of about 3 years younger up to about 8 years older than myself. The possible matches that the site sends me are age appropriate for me, but when I look at the age-range that those guys desire, (typically 35-50) I regularly move past them, understanding I can't compete with women in their desired range, even though many of those men are as much as 5-8 years old than me! To put it differently, intentionally sends me matches that are probably not realistic for me to pursue. When I've e-mailed a number of these men, I don't hear back. I am guessing they check out my profile, see my age, and likely read no further. Even if I'm within their desired range, I still do not get much of a response. Kenzie, Canada free sex dating. I suppose the reason for this is they can get younger women to respond to them, so why would they go for me when they've a chance with the 45 year old version of me? If their first wife was their age, such as, for instance, a school honey or whatever, they probably feel entitled to a newer version, so to speak. Our culture supports this. It's frustrating, as well as depressing and more than a little humiliating. It is the built-in folly of online sites: you're just defined by your actual age, in bold type right next to your user name.

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One more thing. I would like to ask all my middleaged online dating male and female compatriots a favor. Please, let's rid our profiles of these overused phrases once and for all: glass-half-full, sexy, play-free, and easygoing. And these, let's omit these too: "I look 10 years younger than I am," "I hate talking about myself, but..." and any and all derivatives of "my pals/mom/ex/kids tell me that..I am a glass-half-total optimist, who is easy going and looks 10 years younger than I am." I think that if we can all agree to clean up our profiles then perhaps, just perhaps, we can locate some common ground and get back to the business of falling in love (or at least having fun trying).

Discontinue Using Your Profile to Complain about Men. Several guys noticed how many women's online dating profiles are comprised chiefly of criticisms about men - either their profiles, or their conduct in general. I agree with the guys on this one. There is no point in using your profile narrative as a soapbox for your negative perception of all single, middle-aged men (for heaven's sakes make use of a website for that). So while I'm sure there are men (and women) out there who are logged on and behaving badly, I believe that women must take responsibility for their own picks. We can maintain our positive expectations while at the same time heeding our inner voice that warns us when something isn't quite appropriate. Much too frequently some women are led not by common sense, but by wishful thinking as well as a desire to be fine and not appear rude, so we discount the large, red flashing warning lights raging in our heads and proceed without caution. I once met a girl who expressed great dismay that she just could not trust the guys she met online. She then proceeded to tell me a story about one of these guys who spent days (yes, days) wooing her via e-mail. He told her stories of his limitless prosperity and his connections to powerful people all over the world. She slept with him on the 2nd date (after he assured to whisk her away to a private island that next weekend). But that's not all. She also gave him all of her identifying information when he told her that she needed to be checked by "his folks." And guess what? Yep! Her identity was stolen. Whining about how she could simply no longer trust men she met online was a bit like whining about how she could just no longer trust Nigerian princes.

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Tone Down the Boudoir Photos. You say you desire an excellent man who respects you as a human being and is interested in having a serious relationship on you, and then you post photos of yourself next to your bed (or on your own bed, or in your bed, or in another person 's bed). Free Sex Dating nearby Kenzie, Alberta. And if you aren't posting photographs of yourself next to your bed, (or on your bed, or in your bed), you're posting photographs with far too much cleavage. Now, that's certainly great - I don't have any difficulty at all with this, and I'm sure many men do not have a problem either - but what some guys do have a problem with is when women place said super-sexy glamour pictures and then complain to their friends, or make statements on their profiles about how all men are dogs and just need them for sex. And while we are on the topic of complaint-filled profiles... Kenzie Canada free sex dating.

Athletic and Toned Means, well, Athletic and Toned. I hate the body descriptors as much as you do (well, except for you size 0 women out there, you almost certainly love them), but I do believe it's significant that we at least strive for truthfulness. The word on the street is that far too many women out there in the internet dating world are using the "athletic and toned" descriptor in reference to their "about average" bodies (this criticism applies to guys also, of course). The thing is, there actually isn't anything wrong with having an about typical (or curvy) body so let's take the pressure off ourselves and heed the guidance of Amy Schuler, and comprehend once and for all that a little meat on our bones is not going to kill us, and it isn't going to drive away the good guys either (appropriate, good guys?).

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No. More. Instagram. Photographs. I love Instagram photos because several of the filters make my eyes look strikingly blue (or green, or lavender), and some even shave about ten years off my face. But do I post these pictures on my internet dating profile? No I do not. Why? Because my eyes are not really that blue (or green or lavender), and I am about 10 years older than my Instagram photographs would have you believe. This was the number one criticism among the guys I interviewed - artistically filtered (i.e., delusory) photographs. Truth in advertising women, truth in marketing. Free sex dating near Kenzie Alberta.

Manner too Many Pet Photos. This was a tremendous criticism among the guys I interviewed. They are looking at your profile to find out more about you, not your pets. So delete the pet pictures, especially the ones without you in them. Oh and while we're on the topic of pet pictures, I got a private request of all you single, middle-aged women out there on dating websites: please, please, please delete any and all pictures of your cats. This really is really important. I can not stress it enough. Single, middle-aged women already have to cope with much too many negative stereotypes, and the cat photos (you cuddling with your cats, you kissing your cats, multiple cats on your own bed) merely function to strengthen them. I once composed a blog post about how dating sometimes made me feel unwelcome , and I got hundreds of comments from single middle-aged men throughout all of North America informing me that I must live in a dark apartment with 100 or so cats, so actually, please delete them.

Last week I shared my six pet peeves about middle-aged men's online dating profiles , and I promised everyone that this week I'd focus on middle-aged women's online dating profiles. Since I am far more comfortable with men's profiles, I recruited some of my single male friends (and the Twittersphere) to help me with this post. The following list is my best attempt at summarizing the results of my informal survey, with a few of my own observations predicated on a bit of research I conducted myself. Disclaimer: if you're a girl between the ages of 45 and 60, living in the Chicagoland area, and I popped up on your "Viewed Me" list, I'm sorry, really. Anyway, here goes:

I can not say it any clearer than this: Don't post any selfies of yourself looking into your bathroom mirror, interval. Seeing a man standing next to an open bathroom, or maybe a toilet paper dispenser, is an instant turn off. Take a selfie the means everyone else in the world does, by using a selfie stick and pretending as even though you are doing something enjoyable (like fishing or watching football). Or, should you not have a selfie stick, shoot your profile picture the old fashioned way by exploiting the reverse camera view on your smart phone and then snapping a selfie in your car. Worst comes to worst, have a buddy take an action shot of you standing alone with a glass of wine pretending to laugh at someone just out of view. Should you not have a single friend who can shoot your photograph, or you don't own a smartphone, then you likely should not be dating in the first place.

I'm not the sole one seeing these tendencies. Frequently, when I get together with my single girlfriends the issue of some men's online dating profiles is raised with a collective "what in the world were they thinking??" From time to time I Have looked past these profile peculiarities and gone out with some of these men since I felt they were genuinely nice guys. Free sex dating in Kenzie Alberta. And let's just say that I wasn't surprised when they discussed their frustrations with online dating - of rarely receiving e-mails from women, of their emails often going unanswered. I wanted to grab these men by their shoulders, and provide them a powerful (albeit friendly) handshake, while sharing my suspicions about their errant marketing techniques. But I have consistently resisted the temptation to do so out of a fear of seeming rude and ill mannered.

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