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Online dating is ridiculous for men. My day starts with rejection and ends with rejection. Girls are overly worried about a mans outdoor look that it blinds them to everything else. I've been doing online dating for several years now and have met some women, but the majority of the messages I receive are from women I am not physically attracted to. After discussing with buddies women seem to dismiss every guy, so who are they speaking to? Online dating isn't just harder for men, it's much more challenging. It is men doing the great bulk of work and women sitting there filtering thru and rejecting all the nice guys that she whines about not existing.
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