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Internet dating is absurd for men. My day begins with rejection and endings with rejection. Girls are too worried about a mans outdoor look that it blinds them to everything else. I have been doing online dating for a couple of years now and have met some women, but most of the messages I receive are from women I'm not physically attracted to. After discussing with buddies women seem to dismiss every man, so who are they speaking to? Online dating isn't only harder for men, it is considerably harder. It's men doing the great bulk of work and women sitting there filtering thru and rejecting all the nice guys that she whines about not existing.
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