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Debby, you are discussing rot as far as I am concerned. I'm 62 and let me tell you, I've had nights" with women 20-30 years younger and they don't even ask what I do for a job. Certainly the long term prospects are not good with a much younger girl. But in my experience a whole lot of much younger women go for me. They say I'm a silver fox and handsome lol - Sorry, but as much as you'd like to believe it is about a cynical cash grab, I have to tell you we older guys, like some elderly women attract the opposite sex. Unfortunately, many people do not bring the opposite sex. nature is unkind.

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Men over 45 do have more choices regarding dating. But there are ways around this. First, a girl has to specifically say what she offers a guy (that he desires) in the context of dating and relationships. I have read a large number of female profiles (35-55 years old) and practically none of them really say what they provide a guy. Normally, it is a listing of demands and choices. This isn't good marketing. A female must have the ability to answer the question What do I provide a guy he desires?" If she does not know, (or is offended by the question) she is not prepared for dating.

Kathleen, I'm an old man and most women on line in my age group make out they are not interested in the younger men. But of course they're. It is just that all the younger men approaching senior women are mainly, looking for what they consider to be the fastest way to get easy sex. They just reveal interest in guys their own age when the supply of younger men dries up, or the guys begin to lose interest in them. It's insulting to me. And that is why I'm not interested in the women, my age who approach me.

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I get what you're saying. When my marriage fell apart a year ago people attempted to assure me that I was a catch. And I still matter I should be - am tall, trim, look young for 48, run my own successful firm, know just how to dance, am a community leader with environmental education and in my profession, lecture at university, write, from an exotic location (Alaska). As a result I am quite active so online dating looked like the answer. But in fact in six I can count on one hand the number of women that have written back and no actual dates. I picked women in my date range and attractiveness range. Simply to check I wrote to rather old women and less attractive than myself. Nothing. Got on Tinder and swiped virtually every woman. Tried all types of pictures. Nothing. while I speak to my female friends they say they are inundated. The sole dates I've had, 2, were from old pals who both told me they had been fantasising about me for years but then they left it at that and seldom return my calls. At Meetups women appear interested however they do not respond. Just do not comprehend this, it is as if they expect me to pursue them and I 'm loath to do that because the two times I did that when my union was souring forever alienated good friends. Really out to sea on all of this - so much has changed since I was last dating 26 years past.

I feel like I am aging out" of internet dating. I've found after my last birthday (I turned 54 in June) that the response I get on has dropped to nearly nothing. It is as though moving from the early 50s to the mid 50s is some sort of death-knell for a dating life. I initiate contact with guys in an age-range of about 3 years younger up to about 8 years older than myself. The potential matches the site sends me are age appropriate for me, but when I look in the age-range that those men desire, (generally 35-50) I frequently move past them, knowing I can not compete with women in their desired range, even though many of those men are as much as 5-8 years old than me! In other words, intentionally sends me matches which are probably not realistic for me to pursue. When I've e-mailed some of these guys, I don't hear back. I am guessing they check out my profile, see my age, and probably read no further. Even if I'm within their desirable range, I still don't get much of a response. Fiedmont Canada Cheap Hookers. I suppose the reason behind this is they can get younger women to react to them, so why would they go for me when they have a chance with the 45 year-old version of me? If their first wife was their age, like a school honey or whatever, they likely feel entitled to a newer version, so to speak. Our culture encourages this. It's frustrating, as well as depressing and more than a little humiliating. It is the builtin folly of online websites: you're simply defined by your actual age, in bold type right next to your user name.

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One more thing. I would like to ask all of my middle-aged online dating male and female compatriots a favor. Please, let's rid our profiles of these overused phrases once and for all: glass-half-full, sensual, drama-free, and easygoing. And these, let us omit these also: "I look 10 years younger than I am," "I hate talking about myself, but..." and any and all derivatives of "my buddies/mom/ex-husband/kids tell me that..I'm a glass-half-complete optimist, who is easy going and looks 10 years younger than I am." I think that if we can all really agree to clean up our profiles then maybe, just perhaps, we can locate some common ground and get back to the work of falling in love (or at least having fun trying).

Stop Using Your Profile to Whine about Men. Several men noticed how many women's online dating profiles are included primarily of grievances about men - either their profiles, or their behaviour in general. I agree with the guys on this one. There is absolutely no point in using your profile narrative as a soapbox for your negative perception of all single, middle-aged men (for heaven's sakes utilize a website for that). So while I am sure there are guys (and women) out there who are logged on and behaving badly, I believe that women must take responsibility for their own selections. We can maintain our favorable expectations while at exactly the same time heeding our inner voice that warns us when something isn't quite correct. Far too often some women are led not by common sense, but by wishful thinking and a desire to be nice and not seem rude, so we discount the big, red flashing warning lights raging in our heads and continue without caution. I once met a girl who expressed great depression that she just couldn't trust the men she met online. She then proceeded to tell me a story about any of these guys who spent days (yes, days) wooing her via e-mail. He told her stories of his limitless prosperity and his links to powerful people all around the globe. She slept with him on the second date (after he assured to whisk her off to a private island that next weekend). But that's not all. She also gave him all of her identifying information when he told her that she needed to be checked by "his people." And guess what? Yep! Her identity was stolen. Whining about how she could only no longer trust men she met online was a bit like whining about how she could only no longer trust Nigerian princes.

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Tone Down the Boudoir Shots. You say you want an excellent guy who honors you as a human being and is interested in having a serious relationship with you, and then you post pictures of yourself next to your bed (or on your own bed, or in your bed, or in another person 's bed). Cheap Hookers nearest Fiedmont Quebec. And if you're not posting pictures of yourself next to your bed, (or on your bed, or in your bed), you're posting photos with way too much cleavage. Now, that's totally fine - I don't have any trouble at all with this, and I am sure many men don't have a problem either - but what some guys do have a problem with is when women post said super-sexy glamor shots and then complain to their buddies, or make statements on their profiles about how all men are dogs and just want them for sex. And while we are on the topic of criticism-filled profiles... Fiedmont, Canada Cheap Hookers.

Athletic and Toned Means, well, Athletic and Toned. I hate the body descriptors as much as you do (well, except for you size 0 women out there, you almost certainly love them), but I do think it's significant that we at least strive for truthfulness. The word on the street is that far too many women out there in the internet dating world are employing the "fit and toned" descriptor in reference to their "about average" bodies (this complaint applies to guys as well, of course). The thing is, there actually is not anything wrong with having an about typical (or curvy) body thus let's take the pressure off ourselves and heed the advice of Amy Schuler, and comprehend once and for all that a little meat on our bones is not going to kill us, and it isn't going to drive away the good guys either (correct, good guys?).

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No. More. Instagram. Photos. I really like Instagram pictures because several of the filters make my eyes seem strikingly blue (or green, or lavender), and some even shave about ten years off my face. But do I post these photographs on my online dating profile? No I don't. Why? Because my eyes aren't really that blue (or green or lavender), and I am about 10 years older than my Instagram pictures would have you believe. This was the number one complaint among the guys I interviewed - artistically filtered (i.e., delusory) photos. Truth in advertising ladies, truth in advertising. Cheap Hookers in Fiedmont, Quebec.

Waaaay too Many Pet Pictures. This was a tremendous complaint among the guys I interviewed. They are looking at your profile to learn more about you, not your pets. So delete the pet photos, especially the ones without you in them. Oh and while we are on the topic of pet pictures, I 've a personal request of all you single, middle aged women out there on dating websites: please, please, please delete any and all photographs of your cats. This really is so significant. I can not stress it enough. Single, middle-aged women already must manage way too many negative stereotypes, along with the cat pictures (you cuddling with your cats, you kissing your cats, multiple cats on your own bed) only serve to reinforce them. I once composed a blog post about how dating occasionally made me feel unwanted , and I got hundreds of opinions from single middle-aged men throughout all of North America telling me that I must live in a dark flat with 100 or so cats, so actually, please delete them.

Last week I discussed my six pet peeves about middle-aged men's online dating profiles , and I assured everyone that this week I'd focus on middle-aged women's online dating profiles. Since I'm far more comfortable with men's profiles, I recruited some of my single male friends (and the Twittersphere) to help me with this post. The following list is my best effort at summarizing the outcomes of my informal survey, with some of my own observations predicated on a bit of research I conducted myself. Disclaimer: if you are a woman between the ages of 45 and 60, living in the Chicagoland area, and I popped up on your "Viewed Me" list, I am sorry, really. Anyway, here goes:

I can't say it any clearer than this: Don't post any selfies of yourself looking into your bathroom mirror, period. Seeing a man standing next to an open toilet, or maybe a toilet paper dispenser, is an instant turn off. Take a selfie the way everyone else in the world does, by using a selfie stick and pretending as even though you're doing something interesting (like fishing or watching football). Or, if you don't have a selfie stick, take your profile photo the old fashioned way by tapping the reverse camera view on your smart phone and then snapping a selfie in your auto. Worst comes to worst, have a friend take an action photo of you standing alone with a glass of wine pretending to laugh at someone just out of view. In the event that you don't have a single friend who can shoot your photo, or you don't possess a smartphone, then you likely should not be dating in the first place.

I am not the single one noticing these trends. Often, when I get together with my single girlfriends the subject of some men's online dating profiles is raised with a collective "what in the world were they thinking??" From time to time I've looked past these profile peculiarities and gone out with some of these men because I felt they were extremely nice guys. Cheap Hookers in Fiedmont Quebec. And let's just say that I was not surprised when they discussed their frustrations with online dating - of scarcely receiving e-mails from women, of their e-mails often going unanswered. I needed to grab these guys by their shoulders, and provide them a robust (albeit friendly) handshake, while sharing my suspicions about their errant promotion techniques. But I have consistently resisted the temptation to do so out of a fear of seeming rude and ill-mannered.

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