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Debby, you're discussing rot as far as I'm concerned. I'm 62 and let me tell you, I Have had nights" with women 20-30 years younger and they don't even ask what I do for a job. Certainly the long term prospects aren't good with a considerably younger girl. But in my experience a great deal of much younger women go for me. They say I am a silver fox and handsome lol - Sorry, but as much as you'd like to believe it's about a cynical money grab, I have to inform you we old guys, like some older women bring the opposite sex. Sadly, a lot of people do not bring the opposite sex. nature is cruel.

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Men over 45 do have more choices regarding dating. But there are ways around this. First, a woman has to specifically say what she offers a guy (that he desires) in the context of dating and relationships. I've read tens of thousands of female profiles (35-55 years old) and virtually none of them really state what they offer a man. Generally, it's a list of demands and choices. This really isn't good advertising. A woman must have the ability to answer the question What do I offer a man that he wants?" If she doesn't know, (or is offended by the question) she is not prepared for dating.

Kathleen, I am an old man and many women on line in my age group make out they are not interested in the younger men. But of course they are. It's merely that all the younger men approaching elderly women are mainly, looking for what they consider to be the fastest way to get easy sex. They just show interest in men their very own age when the supply of younger guys dries up, or the guys start to lose interest in them. it is insulting to me. And that is why I am not interested in the women, my age who approach me.

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I get what you are saying. When my marriage fell apart a year ago people attempted to reassure me that I was a catch. And I still matter I should be - am tall, clean-cut, seem young for 48, run my own successful firm, understand the way to dance, am a community leader with environmental education and in my profession, lecture at university, write, from an exotic location (Alaska). As a result I'm quite active so online dating looked like the solution. But in fact in six I can count on one hand the number of women who have written back and no actual dates. I decided women in my own date range and attractiveness range. Simply to check I wrote to fairly elderly women and not as attractive than myself. Nothing. Got on Tinder and swiped almost every girl. Tried all types of pictures. Nothing. while I speak to my female friends they say they're inundated. The sole dates I've had, 2, were from old pals who both told me they had been fantasising about me for years but then they left it at that and seldom return my calls. At Meetups women appear interested however they do not answer. Simply do not realize this, it's as if they expect me to pursue them and I 'm unwilling to do that because the two times I did that when my union was souring forever alienated good pals. Really out to sea on all this - so much has changed since I was last dating 26 years ago.

I feel like I am aging out" of online dating. I've seen after my last birthday (I turned 54 in June) that the response I get on has dropped to virtually nothing. It's as though going from the early 50s to the mid 50s is some form of death-knell for a dating life. I initiate contact with men in an age-range of about 3 years younger up to about 8 years older than myself. The possible matches the website sends me are age appropriate for me, but when I look in the age-range that those guys desire, (typically 35-50) I often go past them, knowing I can't compete with women in their desired range, even though many of those guys are as much as 5-8 years old than me! To put it differently, knowingly sends me matches that are likely not realistic for me to pursue. When I've e-mailed some of those guys, I never hear back. I'm guessing they check out my profile, see my age, and likely read no further. Even if I am within their desirable range, I still don't get much of a response. Black River Canada Cheap Hookers. I suppose the reason for this is they can get younger women to respond to them, so why would they go for me when they've a chance with the 45 year old version of me? If their first wife was their age, like a school honey or whatever, they likely feel entitled to a newer version, so to speak. Our culture encourages this. It is frustrating, as well as depressing and more than a little humiliating. It is the builtin folly of on-line sites: you are just defined by your actual age, in bold type right next to your user name.

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One more thing. I would like to ask all my middleaged online dating male and female compatriots a party favor. Please, let's rid our profiles of these overused phrases once and for all: glass-half-full, sexy, drama-free, and easygoing. And these, let us omit these too: "I look 10 years younger than I am," "I hate talking about myself, but..." and all derivatives of "my pals/mom/ex-husband/kids tell me that..I am a glass-half-total optimist, who is easy going and looks 10 years younger than I am." I think that if we can all really agree to clean up our profiles then perhaps, just maybe, we can locate some common ground and get back to the company of falling in love (or at least having fun trying).

Discontinue Using Your Profile to Complain about Men. Several guys noticed how many women's online dating profiles are included chiefly of criticisms about men - either their profiles, or their behaviour in general. I agree with the guys on this one. There's no point in using your profile narrative as a soapbox for your negative understanding of all single, middle-aged men (for heaven's sakes use a blog for that). So while I'm certain there are guys (and women) out there who are logged on and acting badly, I really believe that women must take responsibility for their own selections. We can maintain our favorable expectations while at exactly the same time heeding our inner voice that warns us when something is not quite appropriate. Far too frequently some women are guided not by common sense, but by wishful thinking as well as a want to be nice and not appear rude, so we discount the big, red flashing warning lights raging in our heads and continue without caution. I once met a woman who expressed great dismay that she simply could not trust the guys she met online. She then continued to tell me a story about one of these men who spent days (yes, days) wooing her via email. He told her stories of his limitless wealth and his connections to powerful individuals all around the world. She slept with him on the 2nd date (after he promised to whisk her away to a private island that next weekend). But that is not all. She also gave him all of her identifying information when he told her that she needed to be checked by "his folks." And guess what? Yep! Her identity was stolen. Complaining about how she could just no longer trust guys she met online was a bit like complaining about how she could merely no longer trust Nigerian princes.

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Tone Down the Boudoir Shots. You say you want a quality man who honors you as a human being and is interested in having a serious relationship with you, after which you post photographs of yourself next to your bed (or on your own bed, or in your bed, or in another person 's bed). Cheap Hookers closest to Black River, Nova Scotia. And if you aren't posting photos of yourself next to your bed, (or on your bed, or in your bed), you're posting photos with far too much cleavage. Now, that's certainly fine - I don't have any difficulty at all with this, and I am certain many guys don't have a problem either - but what some guys do have a problem with is when women place said super-sexy glamor photos and then whine to their buddies, or make statements on their profiles about how all men are dogs and only want them for sex. And while we're on the subject of criticism-filled profiles... Black River, Canada Cheap Hookers.

Athletic and Toned Means, well, Athletic and Toned. I despise the body descriptors as much as you do (well, except for you size 0 women out there, you almost certainly love them), but I do believe it is important that we at least strive for truthfulness. The word on the street is the fact that way too many women out there in the online dating world are employing the "athletic and toned" descriptor in reference to their "about average" bodies (this complaint applies to men also, of course). The matter is, there actually is not anything wrong with having an around average (or curvy) body so let us take the pressure off ourselves and heed the advice of Amy Schuler, and understand once and for all that a little meat on our bones is not going to kill us, and it isn't going to drive away the good guys either (correct, good guys?).

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No. More. Instagram. Photos. I love Instagram photos because many of the filters make my eyes seem strikingly blue (or green, or lavender), and some even shave about 10 years off my face. But do I post these pictures on my internet dating profile? No I do not. Why? Because my eyes are not really that blue (or green or lavender), and I am about 10 years older than my Instagram photos would have you believe. This was the number one complaint among the men I interviewed - artistically filtered (i.e., deceptive) pictures. Truth in advertising ladies, truth in marketing. Cheap hookers nearby Black River, Nova Scotia.

Waaaay too Many Pet Photographs. This was a huge complaint among the guys I interviewed. They're taking a look at your profile to find out more about you, not your pets. So delete the pet pictures, especially the ones without you in them. Oh and while we're on the topic of pet photographs, I got a private request of all you single, middle-aged women out there on dating websites: please, please, please delete any and all pictures of your cats. This is really important. I can not stress it enough. Single, middle-aged women already have to deal with way too many negative stereotypes, and the cat photos (you cuddling with your cats, you kissing your cats, multiple cats on your own bed) just serve to reinforce them. I once wrote a blog post about how dating occasionally made me feel undesirable , and I got hundreds of opinions from single middle-aged men throughout all of North America informing me that I must live in a dark flat with 100 or so cats, so really, please delete them.

Last week I shared my six pet peeves about middle-aged men's online dating profiles , and I assured everyone that this week I'd concentrate on middle-aged women's online dating profiles. Since I'm much more familiar with men's profiles, I recruited some of my single male friends (and the Twittersphere) to help me with this post. This list is my best attempt at summarizing the results of my informal survey, with a few of my own observations predicated on a bit of research I ran myself. Disclaimer: if you are a woman between the ages of 45 and 60, living in the Chicagoland region, and I popped up on your "Viewed Me" list, I am sorry, really. Anyway, here goes:

I can't say it any clearer than this: Don't post any selfies of yourself looking into your bathroom mirror, interval. Seeing a guy standing next to an open toilet, or just a toilet paper dispenser, is an immediate turn off. Take a selfie the way everyone else in the world does, by using a selfie stick and pretending as even though you're doing something fun (like fishing or watching football). Or, if you don't have a selfie stick, shoot your profile picture the old fashioned way by tapping the reverse camera view on your smart phone and then snapping a selfie in your car. Worst comes to worst, have a buddy take an action photo of you standing alone with a glass of wine pretending to laugh at someone just out of view. If you don't have a single friend who can shoot your photo, or you do not own a smartphone, then you probably should not be dating in the first place.

I'm not the only one noticing these tendencies. Frequently, when I get together with my single girlfriends the issue of some men's online dating profiles is raised with a collective "what in the world were they thinking??" From time to time I Have looked past these profile peculiarities and gone out with some of these men because I felt they were really nice guys. Cheap hookers near me Black River Nova Scotia. And let us simply say that I wasn't surprised when they discussed their frustrations with online dating - of rarely receiving emails from women, of their emails often going unanswered. I liked to catch these men by their shoulders, and give them a solid (albeit friendly) shake, while sharing my suspicions about their errant advertising techniques. But I've always resisted the temptation to do so out of a anxiety about appearing rude and ill mannered.

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