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Online dating is absurd for guys. My day starts with rejection and ends with rejection. Women are overly worried about a mans exterior appearance that it blinds them to everything else. I have been doing online dating for a couple of years now and have met some women, but most of the messages I receive are from women I am not physically attracted to. After discussing with buddies women seem to blow off every guy, so who are they speaking to? Internet dating isn't only harder for men, it's much more challenging. It's men doing the great majority of work and women sitting there filtering thru and rejecting all the nice guys that she whines about not existing.
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Additionally an observation I've made now that I Have scrolled down and read a lot of the remarks. I see a reoccurring topic. Most of the remarks by men seem to be similar or corroborate each other in some way but yet even the most vocal guy commenting about how much worse they believe online dating is for men vs women will still acknowledge that it is not all cake and ice cream for women either. On the surface this may not appear critical or conclusive in anyhow but it's a common theme I see every time gender is discussed from the internet to the news to real life...that women have absolutely ZERO ability to empathize with men. ZERO............................ I see guys on here, like myself, opening their spirits up talking about how their self esteem was ruined by being completely blown off by the opposite sex and the only female responses are to either attack them or just blow off what his concerns are and talk over him with their own perceived issue that in their head is worse............................. Hereis the matter tho. Rocky Ford Alberta cheap hookers. While getting a lot of e-mails from men you don't find appealing could most definitely be annoying (tho, I'm not certain what is so hard about using filters or just deleting the offending messages) you can't possibly sit there with a straight face and objectively believe that is on the same identical plain of sucking as being ignored like you're imperceptible. The notion that those 2 problems are equal is absolutely laughable and makes it clear the people who do consider they're have no objective view of truth outside of their very own egocentric head and thoughts.................................. I mean I'm happy you have had it so good in your own life which you literally cannot get what it is like to feel like you are invisible but scroll down and read what us men are telling you point blank over and over again and give that small light bulb over your head an opportunity to screw itself in. You might learn something. Other than that If you are a female and every post by a man here only angers you as well as makes you would like to phone the guy a pitiful failure or "creep" then I suggest to you that you might be a sociopath.........................trying to get a path of intervals between each paragraph so this site does not reformat it into another wall of words like my last post.
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