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Yeah, online dating blows. I'm a good looking man (not trying to seem conceited - but itis a salient point in this circumstance), and I have NO success on the websites. I often get hit on when I go out with my friends, to the stage that it is really a running joke. Yet no girls - I mean none - respond to my messages on dating sites. And my messages are completely fine. Never creepy. I will frequently inquire how their weekend was, or ask about something special on their profile, etc. Completely ordinary junk - yet - responses. It's madness. I agree with the guy in the post - if I didn't have the success I have with women in real life, I'd likely have developed a complex by now. My advice to men is to not even try online dating until you have been on the dating scene for many years and you've got a notion of your actual value. Otherwise, if you don't have any idea and you base it off of online dating, you are 100% guaranteed to believe you're ugly, undesirable, don't know how to speak to women, etc.
My name is Justin im30 and have attempted so many dating sites its not amusing. I have also tried various levels of social sites. I. Do bodybuilding in the summer at times and mma as well so..... understand I'm not a bad looking guy. I also am just one fulltime dad of a ten year old. What I've come to recognize about women now a days is that they don't need equal rights they want first-class rights. Way to often I hear from women not to judge a book by its own cover or judge by looks. But its OK for them all to do it. A relationship is a fifty fifty split on both parts. They anticipate everything wile not bringing anything to the table in return. The very fact that I'm a single fulltime dad genuinely disturbs women even on dating sites specially. Girls call a man a creep for so many matters. What makes a guy a creep? Is it because he says a lady is pretty, hot,or misspells a couple of words? In my opinion men have it harder than girl. A guy is likely to give everything, supply everything and do make cook anything a woman wants to make her happy. Not to mention they get away with everything from not paying child support,getting out of speeding tickits. But if a guy dose any of these things he gets into serious trouble and at times goes to jail. Everything a woman on a dating sites says what they need or says what they anticipate from from guys or what they believe in religious views comprised. Fully negates or contradicts everything they say,are or what they want. But...... This is the way women are in2015. And no it really has nothing to do with looks,style. I really am interested what or how any woman has to add to this.
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Online dating is absurd for men. My day begins with rejection and ends with rejection. Women are too worried about a mans exterior look that it blinds them to everything else. I have been doing online dating for a couple years now and have met some women, but the majority of the messages I receive are from women I'm not physically attracted to. After speaking with buddies women appear to discount every guy, so who are they speaking to? Internet dating is not just harder for men, it's considerably more difficult. It is men doing the vast majority of work and women sitting there filtering thru and rejecting all the nice guys that she whines about not existing.
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Additionally an observation I've made now that I Have scrolled down and read most of the remarks. I see a reoccurring theme. Most of the remarks by guys seem to be similar or corroborate each other in some way but yet even the most outspoken guy remarking about how much worse they think online dating is for men vs women will still admit that it is not all cake and ice cream for women either. On the surface this may not seem significant or conclusive in anyhow but this is a common theme I see every time gender is discussed from the internet to the news to real life...that women have absolutely ZERO ability to empathize with guys. ZERO............................ I see guys on here, like myself, opening their souls up talking about how their self esteem was ruined by being totally blown off by the opposite sex as well as the only female answers are to either attack them or just blow off what his concerns are and talk over him with their very own sensed dilemma that in their head is worse............................. Here's the matter tho. Dovercourt Alberta Cheap Hookers. While getting a lot of e-mails from men you do not find appealing could most definitely be annoying (tho, I am not certain what is so challenging about using filters or just deleting the offending messages) you can not possibly sit there with a straight face and objectively believe that is on the same equal plain of sucking as being ignored like you're invisible. The belief that those 2 issues are equal is totally laughable and makes it clear that the people who do believe they're have no objective view of truth outside of their very own selfish head and thoughts.................................. I mean I am glad you've had it so good in your life that you literally can not get what it's like to feel like you are invisible but scroll down and read what us guys are telling you point blank over and over again and give that small light bulb over your head an opportunity to twist itself in. You might learn something. Apart from that In The Event That you are a female and every post by a man here only angers you and makes you want to call the guy a pathetic failure or "creep" then I propose to you that you may be a sociopath.........................striving to get a line of periods between each paragraph so this website does not reformat it into another wall of words like my last post.
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