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Also an observation I've made now that I Have scrolled down and read a lot of the remarks. I see a reoccurring theme. Most of the opinions by guys appear to be similar or corroborate each other in some way but yet even the most outspoken man remarking about how much worse they think online dating is for men vs women will still recognize that it's not all cake and ice cream for women either. On the surface this might not appear significant or conclusive in anyway but this is a common theme I see every time sex is discussed from the internet to the news to real life...that women have absolutely ZERO ability to empathize with men. ZERO............................ I see guys on here, like myself, opening their spirits up talking about how their self esteem was ruined by being entirely ignored by the opposite sex and also the single female responses are to either attack them or simply ignore what his issues are and talk over him with their own perceived issue that in their mind is worse............................. Here's the thing tho. Alberta Beach, Alberta cheap hookers. While obtaining a lot of e-mails from guys you do not find appealing could most definitely be annoying (tho, I am not sure what is so hard about using filters or just deleting the offending messages) you can't possibly sit there with a straight face and objectively think that's on the same equivalent plain of sucking as being ignored like you're invisible. The notion that those 2 issues are equal is totally laughable and makes it clear the folks who do consider they are have no objective view of truth outside of their particular selfish head and notions.................................. I mean I'm glad you have had it so good in your own life which you literally cannot grasp what it is like to feel as if you're imperceptible but scroll down and read what us guys are telling you point blank over and over again and give that little light bulb over your head a chance to screw itself in. You might learn something. Other than that If you are a female and every post by a man here only angers you and makes you want to call the guy a pathetic loser or "creep" then I propose to you that you may be a sociopath.........................trying to get a path of intervals between each paragraph so this website does not reformat it into another wall of words like my last post.
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